Tracey Cox writes at the start of Chapter 2 in, “More Hot Sex,” just because no one hasn’t ever complained, that doesn’t make you a good lover. She tells us that many times a partner will fake having a good time for a variety of reasons; all of which may only be known to them.
Ms. Cox assures us that there are ways to tell how good we are in bed. But, she says, knowledge, attitude and practice will be more important than anything. Sure; technique might count a little. But if it isn’t the right one at the moment… “And,” even the Sexpert is saying, “Size doesn’t matter.”
The steps any woman or man should take to become the best in the bedroom are…
- Evaluate how much you actually know about sex; taking note of any mistakes you might be making.
- Take an honest look at your attitude towards sex; changing any beliefs that might be causing you the slightest bit of tension, which detracts from the overall sexual experience.
- Learn new things in an effort to enhance your partner’s pleasure, even if you don’t have one because you’re between relationships.