In the book, “More Hot Sex,” we are informed that miss matched libidos is a common problem for couples. However, if you really do love your spouse it’s usually something that can be worked out. “But,” if the sex isn’t really all that great, having more of it is that important to you, and no solution is possible… Well… “Someone’s going to have to make some tough decisions.”
A quick tip for the singles in the crowd: If you are dating someone now that isn’t crazy about sex than chances are that’s not going to change when you get married. So, if you truly must have a smoking hot sex life as a part of your future, you might want to run when your partner pops the question.
A dating partner’s attitude towards sex can certainly give you an idea of what kind of sex life you are going to have with them down the line. If they think it’s dirty or just for the sake of procreation, “You are in for a challenge,” especially if you really do want them in your life long term as your significant other. Tracey gives some suggestions as to how you might be able to change their views; stating that it would involve challenging what they were taught about sex as a child.
Chapter 1N: Sex For Singles: Tracey Cox’s More Hot Sex Book Chapter Summary.